Toys and play ideas for your newborn’s tactile sense (0–3 Months)

In the very first weeks and months of life, your tiny newborn is learning an incredible amount. Your baby experiences the world through their senses, noticing sounds, temperature, air on their skin, kisses, taste, movement, and so much more. All of these sensory impressions are sent to your baby’s brand-new brain, where they slowly begin to make sense of them. Over time, this helps your child learn how to be in the world — how to move their body, calm themselves, feel safe, and gently challenge themselves as they grow and learn.

Your baby has three primary senses. One of them is the tactile sense. The other two are the vestibular sense and proprioception.

The tactile sense is often the most familiar of the three. It sends messages to the brain about how the skin and body experience the world. Warm or cold. Soft or hard. Rough or smooth. Wet, dry, sticky, slimy — the world is full of different sensations, and your baby is only just beginning to explore them all.

On our blog, you can read much more about how to stimulate your baby’s tactile sense — and why touch and physical closeness play such an important role in your baby’s sense of comfort and emotional security. At Toy Academy, we regularly share blog posts created in collaboration with occupational therapists, health visitors, and other specialists, all focused on supporting children’s well-being through play.

Your tiny newborn probably already has a few toys that stimulate their senses. For babies under 3 months, vision often takes centre stage. Those little eyes first spot high-contrast colours, so you might have plenty of black-and-white toys at home. Sounds are exciting too — perhaps their rattles and cuddly toys have tiny jingles inside.

But here’s the lovely thing: you’re already stimulating your baby’s sense of touch simply by being close. Every cuddle, every gentle stroke, every loving touch counts. Try softly running your warm hands down your baby’s back, tummy, and legs. Let them feel the surface beneath them against their back or tummy. They’re also exploring through touch when your hair brushes their shoulders, or when a light breeze drifts through the room or over the pram.

Your baby can even sense differences in temperature. A warm bath or a soft washcloth dipped in warm water is a beautiful way to introduce new tactile experiences.

Different materials and textures each bring something new to explore. You might let a light scarf float gently down over your baby’s body, or softly blow on that round little tummy — simple moments that spark big discoveries.

And remember to watch for your baby’s signals. When they’ve had enough lovely sensory stimulation, it’s time to put the toys away and give those busy little senses a well-deserved break.

Your little one, aged 0–3 months, still needs plenty of calm and quiet. What matters most right now is feeling safe, having you close, being well fed, and having a clean bottom. 

Toys can help create a sense of security when they smell familiar. That’s why it can be a lovely idea to sleep with your newborn’s cuddly toys or comfort blankets, so they carry your familiar, comforting scent. Your baby’s sense of touch is naturally working overtime, taking in all the changes in textures and temperatures that come with being brand new to the world. Birth itself is a sensory overload, and it takes time for your little one to make sense of it all.

Activities that support your baby's tactile sense are all about soft materials, warm hands, and plenty of physical closeness. Skin-to-skin contact is one of the very best things you can offer your newborn, so try to enjoy as much of it as possible. During the first few months, you can play with feathers, comfort blankets, and other soft materials by gently brushing them over your baby’s skin. Choose a warm, cosy setting — perhaps after a relaxing bath in a snug bathroom, where your baby can lie naked and feel safe.

Some babies prefer being swaddled during their first weeks of life. If your baby doesn’t seem quite ready to lie naked and relaxed, it may simply mean their tactile sense is still finding its balance. Give it time, be patient and attentive, and trust your intuition. Take things slowly, and let your baby set the pace.

Your little one has their whole life ahead of them — and they already have all the building blocks they need to explore the world.